So, you’re out for a romantic dinner, at a luxurious restaurant and the waiter gets you two glasses of champagne. But hold on, there’s something else as well in that glass. Oh dear, is it a ring in there?
All of this seems too dreamy, doesn’t it? But, isn’t it all about living the dream?
Well, now that you’ve said “Yes”, shed a few happy tears, poised yourself and slipped in the new, fancy ring on your finger, you’re now officially engaged! You better be ready for all the ‘congratulations’ that are on their way, not to mention, you’re bound to have an exhilarating time ahead.
Of course, we understand that after saying “yes” you’ll be all set to tie the knot, but hold your horses! Whilst you will be basking in the glow of your fiancé-fiancée status, it’s easy to miss out on some rules and planning prerequisites.
Here, we have compiled a list of things that you shouldn’t be doing right after getting engaged. Dive in!
Posting The News On Social Media
First things first; put a brake on those “Oh-so-perfect!” social media announcements. Yes, we get that it’s really enticing to post the news or a picture of your engagement ring for that matter on your Instagram story. But consider this – how will you feel if you find out that your sibling or friend got engaged through their Instagram post?
So, keep everything under wraps and take time out to personally text, e-mail or call your friends and family to let them know that “You Are Engaged!”
Once you’ve informed your loved ones, you’re free to post it on your social media accounts. Believe us, those perfect Instagram captions aren’t that important than your family and friends, and they can certainly wait for a day or two.
The Price Tag And Number Of Carats
No one out there wants to know the price tag of your ring or read a post that gives out diamond certification. It is really amazing that your partner has given you a 2ct white gold solitaire. But people would be more interested to know about that dreamy proposal, rather than the ring’s worth.
Video Of Your Glittery Ring
Rather than boasting about how glittery and elegant your engagement ring is in the video clip, why not tell people about how did it all go? It is pretty obvious that every friend and family member would ask you similar questions. So, why not give them what they’re looking for?
Show Any Regret
Are you unhappy that your partner did not say your full name or got on one knee to propose you? Well, what is important over here is, your loved one has asked you to marry them.
Despite the fact that all of it is done and dusted, and you cannot change anything, it’s better to let go off the things that you had in mind. Don’t wallow over how it should have been and focus on your “happy moment”.
Details and Dates Of The Wedding
There’s a reason why we have the concept of wedding invitations. Ensure that you’re sharing all the wedding details with your close family members and keep them in the loop constantly.
Of course, it’s a given that as soon as you get engaged, people might come asking you about the venue and date of your wedding. But, you could simply answer these inquisitive minds with a courteous “I’m so thrilled about the wedding that we haven’t really decided anything yet!”
This way, you wouldn’t hurt any feelings until the invitations are sent across, in case there are changes in your plan down the line.
Start Planning Without Ado
Well, you can surely take out that Pinterest board of yours and even purchase tons of wedding planning magazines. But, if you’re not going to tie the knot anytime soon, then it’s better to stall the search for wedding planners for at least a bit.
Instead, you can make the most of it by spending some quality time with your would-be groom. Use this time to sit down with your family decide on a budget and prepare a plan for your wedding.
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Shopping For Wedding Dress
It’s always better to prepare a step-by-step plan before you jump into the essentials like shopping for wedding dress. Preferably, you should wait till the time you have not only set the budget but also decided on the venue and the time of the year you plan to get hitched.
This is mainly because the time and location that you’ll select will have an impact on the type of wedding dress you purchase. So, when figuring out the wedding dress style by sifting through the wedding magazines, it is better not to go to a store, personally try one and lure yourself into buying it.
Millions Of Hashtags
Are you willing to get yourself featured on (insert a name here) blog? Well, using several hashtags like #taken, #gotengaged, #excitedtogethitched, etc and deluging popular feeds is too mainstream and a hell lot of work for your fingers. So, why not simply ask a blog or publication to post your story if you really want to?
Stressing Yourself
Of course, keeping your calm is easier said than done. Yet, try not to stress yourself too much too soon.
There are going to be days or even weeks for that matter, when you’d wish to shout at the top of your lungs about the things that you’re yet to figure out and how the wedding preparations is costing you an arm and a leg. But, till then take a deep breath, relax and understand that you’ll get everything done before time. You really will!
Forgetting Thank You Cards
Getting engaged is a hazy and blissful time of your life. It is also obvious that you’ll be completely overwhelmed with all the happiness.. Of course, getting engaged is a big deal, but it’s the same for your family and friends.
This is when you’re bound to receive loads of gifts, bottles of bubbly and a myriad of “congratulations” cards. But, be mindful of the gifts you received and the people who gave it to you and try sending as many “Thank You!” cards as possible within a week’s time.
In the initial weeks of your newfound relationship status, it is easy to go off target and make rash decisions in the wake of all the excitement. But, do not let that enthusiasm of basking in the loveliness get hold of you. So, before you break out your diary and save the date, do take a look at the things that you must “NOT” do after getting engaged!
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